Don't Wait for Someday!



Building sandcastles in the Bahamas



“How do you manage to go on all these great vacations?” a friend asked me recently.

Well, my second job as a porn star really helps with the disposable income to travel with. And I really only need one kidney…

Kidding, I’m kidding!  

Actually, the HOW is a combination of planning and budgeting, and you can do it too- no porno appearances or selling of organs necessary!

The first thing is to figure out what you want to do and where you want to go – sort of a vacation/travel bucket list. I have a huge range of things on my to-do list, a few examples:
   Someday I want to visit the Grand Canyon
   Someday I want to tour the wine regions of France and Italy (without kids)
   Someday I want to Snorkel/Scuba the Great Barrier Reef
   Someday I want to visit Disney World (again)
   Someday I want to go to Hawaii
   Someday I want to explore the Galapagos Islands
   Someday I want to stand at the spot of first flight at Kitty Hawk, North Carolina
   Someday I want to go on Baltic Sea Cruise

Sea Floor near the Great Barrier Reef

Some of these are easier than others, of course, and some are more of the short-term vacation goal variety – like Disney World because the kids will probably not be as interested in going at 17 as they are now, while others, like the Great Barrier Reef will be better to do when they are bigger and stronger swimmers. 
But ALL of them are do-able with some planning and saving.

A while ago it hit me that my oldest son is nearly 9 years old
Nine is a great age for going places, and it still seems so young, but in just 9 more short years, 9 will turn into 18 and Justin will be off to college! We're halfway there already, yikes!

You may have heard the saying, the days are long, but the years are short
So true! 
So little time to make those memories together! 
So my husband and I decided that “someday” needed to get a lot more specific if we were going to be able to actually do all of the things we wanted to with our two boys.

The only way to make the someday vacation happen is to save for it. 

We’ve found that the easiest way to set aside money for vacation is to do it automatically via a separate allocation into an earmarked account. 

Vacation is manageable on even a tight budget, but it can't come at the expense of your financial well-being. Yes, this means your family needs to have a budget. I'm going to assume that you do and that you don't need me to tell you that you should have something set aside for a rainy day and long term expenses.

Just like saving for retirement and college, it is easier to do if it happens automatically and I've noticed that we don’t miss the money if it isn’t in the regular checking account to begin with. If we have a little extra or money back at tax time we might stick it in the vacation fund too. A small raise? Divide it up three ways – Retirement, College, Vacation.

Airfare can be a big expense associated with traveling, so I look for a credit card with a good mileage program, like the AlaskaAirlines signature card. It isn’t as good as it used to be, but it still offers discounted companion tickets and bonus miles. The Capital One Venture Card has some good perks too. 
You can use your card for your everyday purchases, like groceries and gas, to get miles. Just be sure to pay it off every month because 
     (A) you don’t want to go into debt and 
     (B) you do want to have balance available on your card for when you travel. 
The way I look at it is I’m spending the money at the grocery store anyway, so I might as well get miles for it. But I don’t want to be paying for December’s groceries in July and if I get dinged with a lot of interest charges then my groceries just got even more expensive – I don’t want that either- my kids cost too much to feed as it is!

Okay, debt = bad, credit cards = useful tool. Lecture over, moving on…

Loyalty to a specific airline can be a good thing if you want to travel a lot, so always enroll in their frequent flier program, you kids can earn miles too, and many airlines have partnerships that provide skymiles reciprocity between programs. So if you can’t fly Alaska Airlines, maybe choose Delta or American since they participate in the mileage plan partnership. Best bet is to pick one airline and one “travel” credit card, learn the ins and outs and always be on the lookout for ways to maximize your miles. Flying for free is a great way to go!

The other key piece of traveling regularly to plan in advance – like a year or more ahead, at least for the big trips, and there’s a couple of reasons for this. 

First, having a trip to plan helps to focus your savings efforts, instead of just socking away some money for “a vacation” - I know that I’m paying for visit to Disney World (Fall of 2013), an awesome trip to Europe (Summer of 2014), and an Eastern Caribbean cruise (Winter 2015). 

I’m less apt to raid the vacation fund for, say, a new couch, if I know that I’m choosing the couch over Disney World. Which brings me to my next point, saying “yes” to traveling might mean saying “no” to something else, in other words, you have to prioritize. 

If funds are a bit tight for the Great Barrier Reef, maybe we’re going to the Grand Canyon instead, but no matter what, we’re going to go somewhere, even if it is camping close to home. But what we’re not going to do is raid the retirement or college fund or go into debt for the experience.

Second, by booking your travel plans as far in advance as possible you actually give yourself greater freedom and flexibility. 

Usually the earlier you make your reservations, the better the price is going to be- this is especially true for cruises and European travel, however, if there is a sale or deal that comes up, you may be able to get the lower price. But if prices rise, you are insulated from any increase up until the final payment date on your trip, anywhere between 30 and 90 days before departure. 
(psst, your travel agent, can and should keep an eye on sales and price decreases in your favor, as well as the fine print pertaining to changes and cancellations, and it doesn’t cost you anything extra to book your trip through a travel agent.) 

We’ve swapped travel plans around plenty too, if one of the more expensive bucket list vacations goes on sale it can be easy to change as long as you’re not too close to your departure date. 
(psst again – trip insurance might be a good idea on a pricy vacation to protect your investment.)

Third, planning ahead allows you to put your vacation “on layaway” after an initial deposit. This helps with the whole budgeting thing too.

For example, an ocean view stateroom on the Norwegian Pearl sailing in January from Miami to the Eastern Caribbean, 4 people for 10 nights is $3,280.24. 
At first glance this probably sounds like a lot of money but it ends up being just $82 per person per day and that includes meals, lodging and transportation to the British Virgin Islands, Antigua, St. Kitts, Martinique, and the US Virgin Islands. AND if you split it out over 16 months, the cost ends up being only $189 per month (assuming only a $250 deposit).

$189 is a lot easier to come up with than $3,000 all in a big chunk, right? For comparison purposes, I searched for the January 2014 sailing to look for the cost difference, but it is completely booked up- not a single stateroom available, even though it sails seven months from now. In general, except for a few last minute deals, it is almost always cheaper to book your cruise way far in advance and you’ll get the best selection of staterooms too.  


Resort packages and even park tickets work the same way. Do you know that Disney traditionally raises ticket prices every June? When would be a good time to buy tickets? Before JUNE, right? One more reason to plan ahead. Also if you time it right you may be able to schedule your trip for a shoulder season when crowds, and costs, are lower.

And finally, a little creativity in vacation planning can go a long ways in controlling expenses as well as adding fun to your trip. Public transportation, an out of the way cafe, maybe even renting a condo instead of staying in a hotel, can all be ways to keep your costs down and lend to a more authentic experience of your destination.

Don’t wait for someday to come along – budget it, book it, go!

(And please, call me if you'd like help with your travel arrangements)