Talking Travel with Ken Gaub

I got to spend some time with Ken Gaub yesterday.

Photo Courtesy of Ken Gaub World Wide Travel
He is the president and founder of Ken Gaub Ministries, Founder/President of Y.O.U., a non-profit religious organization geared to helping people worldwide, an international motivational speaker, author of six books with an international radio broadcast, and the recipient of many awards from government officials in several countries including the 1990 Presidential Medal of Merit from President George H.S. Bush, the 1991 J. Edgar Hoover Award for distinguished Public Service, the 1992 Family Values Award from Vice-President Dan Quayle, the Presidential Award from President Ronald Reagan and the 1997 American Police Hall of Fame Honor Award (I've seen his name on their wall!).

Of particular interest to me, Mr. Gaub has traveled to over 115 countries and has visited Israel and the Holy Lands over 150 times- needless to say he is among the elite of the elite in frequent flyer circles, having traveled over 8 million miles around the world. He's a pretty big deal, and yet, I found Mr. Gaub to be extremely nice and without a shred of ego and it was so cool to visit with him. We talked travel mostly and he showed me some of his souvenirs, gifts, and mementos from around the world and his stack of passports, even one issued by the KGB!

Mr. Gaub and his wife host at least two all inclusive trips a year to the Holy Lands which include visits to the Jerusalem, the Dead Sea, the Sea of Galilee, Capernaum, the Jordan River, and Bethlehem. He said people of all faiths, as well as those with no faith, have traveled with them to Israel. Clearly an interpretative tour with someone so intimately familiar with both the word and the Holy Lands would be an amazing experience and I'd love to go along sometime. They sometimes do other hosted tours, but focus almost exclusively on the Holy Lands.

If you've ever considered visiting Israel and the Hold Lands, check out Ken Gaub World Wide Travel and let them know Melissa at Northwest Family Vacations sent you.

What to Wear - Decoded

What to wear on your next cruise?



This topic is debated endlessly, but the short answer is: whatever you want.

However, what you wear may determine where it is appropriate for you to be eating and hanging out onboard the cruise ship.

For example, if you want to wear your bathing suit the entire cruise, you can do that. But, you probably aren't going to show up to formal night dinner in the main dining room with just a cover-up and flip flops. That attire is appropriate for the poolside grill and usually the buffet too. Similarly, there's usually an open air bar where you can go in whatever you have on at any time of the day or night, but the upscale champagne bar may necessitate a little more clothing.

So, if you want to wear whatever, chances are you want a casual, laid back type of vacation. So easy grill and buffet food is probably cool.

If you are more of a foodie, then you may want to pack some other clothing options to go with the suggested attire for the MDR (main dining room) or Specialty Restaurants. Also for evening performances in the theater, most cruise lines will suggest "smart casual" or above.

So what's "Smart Casual" versus "Casual", "Business Casual" or "Formal"?

"Daytime Casual" is going to be different from "Evening Casual" for dining and entertainment.

To me, Daytime Casual is pretty much anything other than a bathing suit- be comfortable.
Evening "Casual" is defined by what it isn't: NOT JEANS, not shorts, not tank tops, not flip-flops, not t-shirts, not sneakers.
What not to wear!


Cruise "Casual" is sort of the same as a dressed down "Business Casual" - For men this would be slacks and a shirt with a collar. For women it would be a skirt, nice capris, or pants with a blouse, or a sundress.



"Smart Casual" is going to mean a sports coat OR a shirt with a tie for men, and dresses or pantsuits for women. Think afternoon wedding.

"Formal" can be as dressed up as you'd like. I've seen white dinner jackets and full length gowns before, but personally tend to go with a middle of the road option - the classic black cocktail dress for me and a dark suit and tie for the spouse.

The cruise line makes a difference too - some tend to be more dressy than others. Most have information on their website that will offer suggested attire.

Where you're sailing also may impact what you wear. Tropical cruises are more dress-down than Alaskan, European, and trans-Atlantic. If there are a lot of sea days, dressing up in the evenings makes the nighttime seem a little more special.

Also check your itinerary for special dress nights -like a "White" or "Pirate" party, and pack accordingly.



For kids-
Children can get away with a more casual look overall, younger boys are okay with nice khaki shorts or slacks and collared shirts, even on formal nights. Although dressing up can be fun for them too, so if you have a suit or pretty dress from cousin so-and-so's wedding, formal night on a cruise is a good opportunity to wear it one more time before it is outgrown.


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Don't Wait for Someday!



Building sandcastles in the Bahamas



“How do you manage to go on all these great vacations?” a friend asked me recently.

Well, my second job as a porn star really helps with the disposable income to travel with. And I really only need one kidney…

Kidding, I’m kidding!  

Actually, the HOW is a combination of planning and budgeting, and you can do it too- no porno appearances or selling of organs necessary!

The first thing is to figure out what you want to do and where you want to go – sort of a vacation/travel bucket list. I have a huge range of things on my to-do list, a few examples:
   Someday I want to visit the Grand Canyon
   Someday I want to tour the wine regions of France and Italy (without kids)
   Someday I want to Snorkel/Scuba the Great Barrier Reef
   Someday I want to visit Disney World (again)
   Someday I want to go to Hawaii
   Someday I want to explore the Galapagos Islands
   Someday I want to stand at the spot of first flight at Kitty Hawk, North Carolina
   Someday I want to go on Baltic Sea Cruise

Sea Floor near the Great Barrier Reef

Some of these are easier than others, of course, and some are more of the short-term vacation goal variety – like Disney World because the kids will probably not be as interested in going at 17 as they are now, while others, like the Great Barrier Reef will be better to do when they are bigger and stronger swimmers. 
But ALL of them are do-able with some planning and saving.

A while ago it hit me that my oldest son is nearly 9 years old
Nine is a great age for going places, and it still seems so young, but in just 9 more short years, 9 will turn into 18 and Justin will be off to college! We're halfway there already, yikes!

You may have heard the saying, the days are long, but the years are short
So true! 
So little time to make those memories together! 
So my husband and I decided that “someday” needed to get a lot more specific if we were going to be able to actually do all of the things we wanted to with our two boys.

The only way to make the someday vacation happen is to save for it. 

We’ve found that the easiest way to set aside money for vacation is to do it automatically via a separate allocation into an earmarked account. 

Vacation is manageable on even a tight budget, but it can't come at the expense of your financial well-being. Yes, this means your family needs to have a budget. I'm going to assume that you do and that you don't need me to tell you that you should have something set aside for a rainy day and long term expenses.

Just like saving for retirement and college, it is easier to do if it happens automatically and I've noticed that we don’t miss the money if it isn’t in the regular checking account to begin with. If we have a little extra or money back at tax time we might stick it in the vacation fund too. A small raise? Divide it up three ways – Retirement, College, Vacation.

Airfare can be a big expense associated with traveling, so I look for a credit card with a good mileage program, like the AlaskaAirlines signature card. It isn’t as good as it used to be, but it still offers discounted companion tickets and bonus miles. The Capital One Venture Card has some good perks too. 
You can use your card for your everyday purchases, like groceries and gas, to get miles. Just be sure to pay it off every month because 
     (A) you don’t want to go into debt and 
     (B) you do want to have balance available on your card for when you travel. 
The way I look at it is I’m spending the money at the grocery store anyway, so I might as well get miles for it. But I don’t want to be paying for December’s groceries in July and if I get dinged with a lot of interest charges then my groceries just got even more expensive – I don’t want that either- my kids cost too much to feed as it is!

Okay, debt = bad, credit cards = useful tool. Lecture over, moving on…

Loyalty to a specific airline can be a good thing if you want to travel a lot, so always enroll in their frequent flier program, you kids can earn miles too, and many airlines have partnerships that provide skymiles reciprocity between programs. So if you can’t fly Alaska Airlines, maybe choose Delta or American since they participate in the mileage plan partnership. Best bet is to pick one airline and one “travel” credit card, learn the ins and outs and always be on the lookout for ways to maximize your miles. Flying for free is a great way to go!

The other key piece of traveling regularly to plan in advance – like a year or more ahead, at least for the big trips, and there’s a couple of reasons for this. 

First, having a trip to plan helps to focus your savings efforts, instead of just socking away some money for “a vacation” - I know that I’m paying for visit to Disney World (Fall of 2013), an awesome trip to Europe (Summer of 2014), and an Eastern Caribbean cruise (Winter 2015). 

I’m less apt to raid the vacation fund for, say, a new couch, if I know that I’m choosing the couch over Disney World. Which brings me to my next point, saying “yes” to traveling might mean saying “no” to something else, in other words, you have to prioritize. 

If funds are a bit tight for the Great Barrier Reef, maybe we’re going to the Grand Canyon instead, but no matter what, we’re going to go somewhere, even if it is camping close to home. But what we’re not going to do is raid the retirement or college fund or go into debt for the experience.

Second, by booking your travel plans as far in advance as possible you actually give yourself greater freedom and flexibility. 

Usually the earlier you make your reservations, the better the price is going to be- this is especially true for cruises and European travel, however, if there is a sale or deal that comes up, you may be able to get the lower price. But if prices rise, you are insulated from any increase up until the final payment date on your trip, anywhere between 30 and 90 days before departure. 
(psst, your travel agent, can and should keep an eye on sales and price decreases in your favor, as well as the fine print pertaining to changes and cancellations, and it doesn’t cost you anything extra to book your trip through a travel agent.) 

We’ve swapped travel plans around plenty too, if one of the more expensive bucket list vacations goes on sale it can be easy to change as long as you’re not too close to your departure date. 
(psst again – trip insurance might be a good idea on a pricy vacation to protect your investment.)

Third, planning ahead allows you to put your vacation “on layaway” after an initial deposit. This helps with the whole budgeting thing too.

For example, an ocean view stateroom on the Norwegian Pearl sailing in January from Miami to the Eastern Caribbean, 4 people for 10 nights is $3,280.24. 
At first glance this probably sounds like a lot of money but it ends up being just $82 per person per day and that includes meals, lodging and transportation to the British Virgin Islands, Antigua, St. Kitts, Martinique, and the US Virgin Islands. AND if you split it out over 16 months, the cost ends up being only $189 per month (assuming only a $250 deposit).

$189 is a lot easier to come up with than $3,000 all in a big chunk, right? For comparison purposes, I searched for the January 2014 sailing to look for the cost difference, but it is completely booked up- not a single stateroom available, even though it sails seven months from now. In general, except for a few last minute deals, it is almost always cheaper to book your cruise way far in advance and you’ll get the best selection of staterooms too.  


Resort packages and even park tickets work the same way. Do you know that Disney traditionally raises ticket prices every June? When would be a good time to buy tickets? Before JUNE, right? One more reason to plan ahead. Also if you time it right you may be able to schedule your trip for a shoulder season when crowds, and costs, are lower.

And finally, a little creativity in vacation planning can go a long ways in controlling expenses as well as adding fun to your trip. Public transportation, an out of the way cafe, maybe even renting a condo instead of staying in a hotel, can all be ways to keep your costs down and lend to a more authentic experience of your destination.

Don’t wait for someday to come along – budget it, book it, go!

(And please, call me if you'd like help with your travel arrangements)